What Makes a Man Attractive?
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There are very frequent and popular questions among girls which are: is that man charming or sexy enough? Why is he attractive? What makes a man hot?
Attractiveness is a unique feature, and as it’s impossible to learn how to become charming, it’s also very difficult to unveil the secrets which render a man attractive!
Despite all that, the attractive man always shines differently and is easily distinguished among his peers. That charisma magnetizes us spiritually and physically as well.
Depending on research and stereotypical concepts according to men, women are naturally considered charming because of the way they look, but the case is different to women when it comes to defining men in terms of attractiveness. While there is a focus on the appearance of men, there’s a lot more focus on many other things like the man’s personality, whether he pays attention to women or not and his tone with kids…etc
We should know that the look is not everything to recognize the attractive man as well as it’s not the money. I can define the attractive man in few words only: he is innocent, down to earth, manly and honest.
I will cite 10 reasons depending on a questionnaire conducted with experts plus normal women, but still, this remains a point of view from a different angle:
Main Characteristics of the Attractive man:
1-The attractive man likes kids. He knows how to communicate with children and understands them and he doesn’t do that to draw any attention; he does that naturally.
2-The attractive man has a genuine and high sense of humor.
3-The attractive man’s eye twinkles without a reason! He is always in search of the core of life. His eyes are sharp with eagerness to examine every single source of joy around him. These glimmering eyes can capture you, flirt with you and engulf you with tenderness.
4-The attractive man has an ever smiling face. He is not embarrassed to laugh his heart out without reservations.
5-The attractive man knows how to talk and control any conversation. His body is in harmony with his mouth and if he speaks, he will utter coherent sentences, and when the conversation heats up, it becomes fun just to listen to him.
6-The attractive man is a mysterious, enigmatic person. He is not ordinary in his clothing or the way of expressing himself. He makes you think that he always has plan B, and he is not the man of chances or accidents.
7-The attractive man is in love with the whole world: he chats with the grocer while shopping, he jokes with the cap driver, and he immerses himself in a pleasant chat with the neighbors!
8-The attractive man is captivating. He knows how to be a leader and knows what he wants. He is a man that you want to be with; to join and be sheltered by because he will show you things you’ve never seen in yourself and in the outside world.
9-The attractive man loves to interact with the four seasons of the year. He likes to wrap himself in winter and feel the wool on his skin, while in summer; he likes to wear as less as possible and enjoys sitting under the sun and taste the weather.
10-The attractive man loves food. He enjoys cooking and savoring every dish and sometimes, he surprises us with his cooking skills.
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socially awkward guy reporting in.
im kinda nothing of this except for the fact that i actually smile, harhar! :D.
i often get said that im hot and stuff and the girls just are to shy to talk to me.
paradox life.
i dont like the fact that many females still believe in: 'the man has to do the first step'
just go over and say hi. we all like it :)
Women are all man hating psychos who if they find a decent guy have to try to destroy him by any means necessary. Cheat on him left right and center and say it's his fault because he was at the grocery store buying milk (for you). Or whatever. That's not what men look for in a soul mate.
im all of those things!!!!!!!! yay me!
I feel very unmanly searching this and reading this Hub.( not that I'm all that manly yet I'm only 16). I've been together with my girlfriend for almost a year now, our 1 year is on the 4th. :D BUT ANYWAYS that's besides what I'm trying to say. Maybe this is just a part of growing up to me... but sometimes i just don't feel like i measure up to my girlfriend in attractiveness.(SHE IS GORGEOUS. At least to my eyes) She says I'm hands down one of the most attractive guys at our school, but i just feel that ill never EVER measure up to her and that she'll lose interest in me and want to date other people. I love this girl and Id take a bullet for her, d take the blame for her mistakes , Id do ANYTHING for her... but i fear that she will lose interest in me because I'm not attractive enough :( I've already made a promise to God and to myself, that i would stop at nothing to spend the rest of my life with this girl. Maybe i should search "how to keep your girlfriend attracted to you" but this still helped :) ( it felt good to get this off my chest too , haha XD )
All the attractive, charismatic men I've ever liked are older than me and already have someone. :(
I really want to find a man who is just perfect for me, not universally perfect.
Well at risk of sounding a bit stuck on myself, I'm already attractive physically. I get looks from women and men wherever I go. This actually bothers me. What bothers me is that I am being "sized-up" and get approval based solely on how I look. There is a person inside this body. I believe the real desire is to find a handsome man who is great in the sack, and one they can "put up with". Trophy husband, stud, beautiful children. No pressure there! I can take care of myself just fine, I've given nobody the opportunity to make me homeless. I've built my castle and paid for it all by myself. I don't need liabilities like hangers-on who after a couple of years move on taking half of what I have created, which I consider "user status". I'll die unmarried and unattached but I'll keep all my property thank you. Ladies, don't want ya, and have proven I don't need ya. Look out fellas, I've told you what they want, you're just a work-horse, slave, doormat, and a source of cash. You have it, they want it and will do anything to get it from you. Be afraid. Be very afraid. This is why women don't like gay men. They wear shielding that successfully prevents them from being used by women and that goes against everything thats on their agenda. "I can't get ahead off you and you won't "scratch my itch", fix my car, buy me a house so I hate you, you destroy all my plans and all I wanted to do was "change you". Thanks. Thanks a lot. Keep looking for chumps, there seems to be an almost endless supply of them waiting to give away half of everything they have. Is it worth it? Not at all. I don't need my life left in ruins by blood-sucking leaches. Have at it boys, they're all yours!
Interesting! Although I would love to go trough your reference list to justify the fascinating points you've made.
It's funny, I would have said that I have these traits. Which leads me to the depressing conclusion that, in fact, I do not. Damn you internet, you have foiled me again.
Hello, shamelabboush! Wonderful hub. Nice information. Just wish I could use this. But good to know in case the situation, legally, comes up. Voted up and away for YOU are an extremely-talented writer. Very creative. Honest and gifted. I am glad to meet you and now, FOLLOW you. I look forward to reading MORE of your hubs. Merry Christmas. Sincerely, Kenneth
I do most if not all of these things and somehow i still don'y have a girlfriend
It's amazing how attractive men become when they are rich.
Sorry, just thought someone would like a little truth.
The attractive man- all that for me. Ha ha ha, so awesome. I love this hub.
Maybe we should try to appreciate the men we have, instaed of worrying about what makes a man attractive. We would rip out the eyes of our man , if we thought he was wondering what makes a women attractive.
Search for "How to be an attractive man" (A.Kisiel) on amazon.com
Pretty good common sense advices and tips
i would simply like to be with the one who loves me madly,immensely,truelyand forever....attractiveness doesnt mind to me much but love does....i believe in love and i am sure one day i will find him....
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Hey Scott... the solution to your question is to stop focusing on women. Focus on yourself instead to become attractive in the eyes of women. Women will then offer you their numbers without you needing to ask. This is the secret.
And by the way, most of your communication should be non-verbal... a woman will have decided if she wants you (or doesn't want you) before you have a chance to say a word to her. Men do the same with women. We know if we're attracted to her before any words are spoken - this works both ways.
Solution is to work on developing your attractiveness - attractiveness as perceived by women. The step-by-step process (i.e., formula) is in the Attractive Man Formula ebook. But you must really want to succeed with women for this ebook to be benefit to you. Bookmark the page, http://AttractiveManFormula.com, now even if you're not ready for it yet. It will come in handy when you're ready.
I hope to see you succeed and would be pleased if my book could help you.
Spike
Great post. Thanks for sharing.
I think this has at least some merit I suppose. I'm a lot of these things. But only if you get to know me. The first time meeting me, these traits may not be evident. The dilemma is that you can only get to know me after a first date/encounter. Which may not happen given I don't make a good first impression. So that my friends is the kicker. How do you score a number?
goes for you girls, if you're not getting all the men you want and want to become
and love the lord
To help all you laides out there, I wrote a book (Attractive Man Formula) that teaches men how to become attractive. Bottom line is men need to take great care of themselves - mentally, physically (health, grooming, fashion), spiritually, etc. The result is all the things a girl wants.
Same goes for you girls, if you're not getting all the men you want and want to become more attractive, take great care of yourself, dress well, eat healthy and be beautiful, and us guys will be more likely to like you.
...Spike!
thanks dear writer what u said is so true
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what makes a man attractive is basic hygine, cleanliness, good dressing, sense of humor, confidence and master in a trade and high social status all this together makes a man attractive.
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Yes this man exist..., but you women are too busy chasing douchebags
mmm let me say what makes a man attractive for me
-His naughtiness with thin lip simile
-His ignorance and distance from people like cats
-proportion of his triceps'and shoes
-Proportion of his pant style which shows his crock size
-Shaved face which still shows he is hairy face
-Masculine, deep voice
-Elephantine fingers with red/darkly skin
-Silted blue eyes
Please dont mix atractiveness and being a good man..lol
what makes a man attractive is basic hygine, cleanliness, good dressing, sense of humor, confidence and master in a trade and high social status all this together makes a man attractive.
Very interesting post. Thanks again.. Please Keep it Up!!
A man can be drop dead gorgeous and have the brain of a rock and the the personality of an Ape! Sorry for all the spelling errors.
i think if man is attractive then to be handsome is not a big deal
I found your website about a month ago and check it several times a day. It is by far one of the funniest sites that I have come across.
Black men are the most attractive men in the world.
Sex appeal galore.
very good and thanks precsilla
actually to peraphrase precsiclla's speech is that like everything different the choice is different. maybe a man isn't handsome but for his wife or gf he is the best and viceversa. tanx
all of it is so true. much better than the other sites. can you please make one of what makes a women attractive? there arent any good ones on that.
Really v nice hub shamelabboush..keep it up..
Besides, not only is that guy's mustache STUPID, he's randomly shirtless, has multiple tattoos, and is smoking. EW!(Figurative Language: Words or phrases that mean differently from what they say to have a special effect.)
I prefer turkeys. Their gobbling is SEX-Y! Woot!
He remembers that I exist even when there is no special occation
People deserve wealthy life time and mortgage loans or sba loan would make it better. Just because freedom is based on money.
I think an attractive man depends on the view of the woman herself. Like the old addage "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". Very few of the things you pointed out above is what I look for in a man. I have grandchildren so naturaly I don't want them hurt. But the guy doesn't have to be handsome, rich, love the 4 seasons, doesn't have to be a leader or a fallower. The man I'm looking for accepts me for who and how I am, he doesn't look to change me nor doese he deliberately seek to belittle me. He's not ashamed to be seen with me or to introduce me to family and friends. He knows there are times when I just need to be held while I cry out all the pain and sorrow. He laughs easily and knows how to play with adults as well as children. He doesn't do drugs, drink, or smoke because he needs no excuse for his own mistakes. He remembers that I exist even when there is no special occation (this 1 not so important because they tend to forget me even on the special occations). He knows that hurting me doese not make him a man and he loves me enough to walk away. He may not be Mr. Universe or the worlds strongest man but he has a personality that all the money in the world can't buy.
This is what I look for but not what all women look for but then we all have different eyes, personalities, and experiences that make us see a men differently. A man can be drop dead gorgeous and have the brain of a rock and the the personality of an Ape! Sorry for all the spelling errors.
I know one very attractive, and I can't believe that: he's american! LOL
a man is attractive when he is naked, when he is serious, when he is working hard, when he is kissing you~~!
Good information!
Weird. You'd only know ALL those ten things if you followed him around 24/7, which is fine if you were dating him. Hopefully you'd have got past his attractiveness by then!
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His 'eyes can capture you, flirt with you and engulf you with tenderness' - that sums it up for me! Wonderful hub....loved every word of it!
What a beautiful, well-written hub Shamel. I give it a thumbs up and will send it to my husband on his birthday. Save for his disdain for our hot weather, he is all you have described including being a handsome, brilliantly talented provider with straight white teeth. I visualized him long before I met him and although it took over 10 years he finally came into my life. We celebrated our 30th anniversary just a days ago. Thanks for a great post.
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i love johnny Depp to look at. Finding a strange attraction in men that actually take the time to listen, I have to say some attractive men on here, in the listening, reading hubs and kindness department. You come way up there Shamel hi how are you.....
I think you hit on alot of good reasons why men can be found attractive. Charisma being numero uno! Whether they are Johnny Depp or your average Joe if he has that unique charisma and confidence it shines through whether he drives a Lamborghini or a Nissan...its all about attitude. Thanks for the photo up top, Johnny Depp is definitely a HOTTIE!
for a man...you did very well...you must be keen to many eyes
Good to be with a man who has a good sense of humor, and of course with a little of everything you have mentioned :)
Stay cool!
An attractive man is one you could love if you are blind and have never seen his face. An attractive man touches the heart. Attractive is inside out.
Faithful should be the most important one. Above all. Very nice hub though. I agree with everything else, except for the man part. Haha.
This one is a thinker. Alot of things make a man attractive.
They way he treats a woman is the most though. Always been most important to me.
Wow great HUB here pal hehehe I'm bookmarking this hehehe no wonder you have a Filipina GF with you thanks for sharing man hehehe, I'll keep on reading your hubs pal in the days ahead...
Great Hub, You got me when you said "The attractive man’s eye twinkles without a reason!" It's so true for me to be attracted to someone like that. But 'the attractive man' must also be the Faithful type, otherwise he doesn't seem so attractive for very long!
appreciates all the things you do, cooks for you, takes you for an ice cream during summer, coffe on winter, brings you a biscotti for fall and gives you the most beautiful flowers on spring.
What makes an attractive men, is someone, who makes you laugh, reminds you how beautiful you are physically and internally, does his best to understand you, makes you happy even by telling you that you have pretty eyes, shoes, earing etc, most most importantly makes you feel safe :)
I will check your hub, thanks.
Hmmm, I was wondering who got that website title :). Here is my hub with the exact same topic:
what makes a man attractive?? no matter how silly he looks in other people's eyes, he will be perfect in someone else's ;-p
:)Enjoyed Re-reading this.
Wow Number three was right on for me. The Twinkling eyes! Love a guy who has a lust for life!
Every woman has there own perspective to find some man attractive sometime his snobbishness attract her or his physique or his smartness or his creative side it can be anything.
Every woman has there own perspective to find some man attractive sometime his snobbishness attract her or his physique or his smartness or his creative side it can be anything.
Aside from the number 6, mysterious aspect, that pretty much describes my boyfriend. I'm so lucky!! (I don't much care for mystery so that works out well there too)
In addition I am a sucker for a well defined mouth (pun intended)
WOW, you've met my husband ;)
Wow, inventive :) Thanks
I like the tips but this is a little too good to be true in real life.
Wow such an attractive man Johnny Depp...... it is in his eyes.... He has the wow factor x1000000
I've had more than enough "mystery" and "enigma", shamelabboush. I like "up-front" men. Ahahaha! :P
In my experience, I can't always pinpoint exactly what it is that makes a man attractive. But looking at your list, I would have to say a man with the characteristics described in #2, #3, #4, and #5 would be smoking hot! Haha! :D
Thanks! You are unusually insightful.
Jhonny depp is da best
nice hub, doesn't focus too much on physical apparence
To me what makes a man attractive is one that wears really nice, maintained shoes. Thats really sexy!
My husband has many of these traits. My favorite is the fact that he loves to cook and does most of the cooking in our house!
Thanks for writing an article about me!!!
hey how r u
My husbad owns only five of these which is perfect and I wonder what he would be like if he owns all the traits?
Great hub, thanks!
Here, here! I recently divorced an a man who couldn't fit the bill!
Thats a very truthful info. I accept it. The very most and forerunning factor in this case will be "Manliness". Whatever a man looks like, whatever he does, wherever he is, the only thing which can attract women or even impress other men is his mainliness.
nice hub!!
Very Nice........... These are few and far.
dori
Great hub, and I think your 10 points are right on the mark! My husband meets all but the last one--he's a lousy cook, lol--but I can forgive him that, since he has the other nine attractive features.
It's funny how you mentioned the twinkling eyes--that's the first thing that I noticed, when I met my husband...his twinkling eyes...they still make my heart skip a beat...
Attractive men in my eyes are considerate and good listeners~
He knows how to show tenderness at the right time and always acts as an effective listener.
My husband is an attractive man and I love him for that, you can have all of the wealth in the world but you also need your best friend at your side. Great read!!:)
For me what makes a Man attractive is his Brains.
For me what makes a Man attractive is his Brains.
A man who have the power, ie: Society value him a lot, then he is very Attractive. 90% of the womens thinks my man(may be lover, brother , relative or husband) must be acceptable to the public and he must have a good position in society. Body style is not a most considerable part.
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I would have bookmarked this hub if it was by some girl/women. No one knows what a women need, not even god, then how come you buddy shamelabboush, LOL...jus kidding yaar.....btw I enjoyed reading it
I like my men hunky, " jeez shud we be in here?" "Nooo, lets sneak out again "
Baby-like infers someone else I have to take care of. I don't need another child, thanks. Nice is paramount.
Replace the "baby-like" with manly and you have yourself a winner.
I like and appreciate the noble attempt to define "attractive". I do agree with Brite that the whole idea is rooted in very primitive considerations. In current society, we have the luxury of considering things like being good with kids as well as superficial considerations like looks. "Attractiveness" has evolved right along with everything else. I'd like to think we have further still to evolve. Maybe someday, we'll be able to fall in love without ever laying eyes on a person... Wait! Haven't we already started doing that with the internet...?
Shamelabboush, Yes, I married him. :)
A man is attractive if he appeals to what I consider to be attractive.
Personally, i go for personality and i am even struggling with finding a man who has one of those! The qualities you listed sound wonderful, but are not all for me. Money isnt everything, nor are looks... and i dont think that man you discribe exists.. or..does he?!
Interesting read if this what a survey says, but I have to say that none of the points rings a bell as far as I what I find attractive goes. (I really don't think an "ever smiling face" is something I'd find attractive; and I lean toward people, like me, who don't care much about food and who hate Winter, the way I do. :) )
My idea of an attractive man is one who has the appearance I find attractive (everyone finds something different attractive), one who is super clean, intelligent, and - most importantly - nice.
I'd say 'white teeth' :D. Interesting hub!
My attractive man: sure of himself, knows what he wants, loves kids naturally, someone you can trust with - you, loving, kind, funny, serious when need be and loves my querkyness.
I couldn't vote because I do not want to be an attractive, rich or handsome man. Ha!
Attractiveness is somewhat in the eye of the beholder. And still there are the general outlines.
I am convinced that what makes a man attractive in the eyes of a woman has a lot to do with our primeval being, that he must be a good provider, have good stronge genes, etc.
I also know that modern environment is changing the way we look on men, like the first parts about being good with children and smiling.
excellent hub, smiling is very attractive!


















































shamelabboush Hub Author 3 weeks ago
hello rasen and thank you for the sweet comment